I haven’t seen very many people die. Instead it’s people who’ve already died and then are brought to the ER (usually still dead), or people who are about to die that we prop up long enough to die in the ICU, or people that die just a minute before I get to them in response to their code blue. Of those that actually manage to die in the ER, most are lined and tubed and monitored so that their death is observed not on their person but rather in an aseptic collection of downward trending numbers oblivious to our resuscitative efforts.
But then I saw a 103 year old man who actually looked fine but turned out to be in complete heart block. And then some time later his heart rate jumped from 40 to 190 and now he was in V-tach. He still looked fine so I just stood somewhat mesmerized by his sine wave waiting for the nurse to come back with the amiodarone.
And then abruptly his sine wave became a flat line. He had a Do Not Resuscitate order in the chart so I didn’t. Instead I just watched him. For a few long seconds his countenance seemed to defy his condition. But then his eyes rolled back in his head, and his color began to change from pale to red to dusky blue. His mouth kind of drew in on itself in a manner wholly unnatural with life. I asked his son if he wanted to say goodbye and he did so I led him to the bedside and everyone else including myself out of his room.
But I continued to eavesdrop from the remote heart monitoring station. And I saw a blip in his flat line, then another, and soon his heart was beating again, more normal than when he arrived. I headed back to his room to find him eerily well appearing, as if the last few minutes had abruptly been erased.
Like I said, I haven’t seen very many people die.
August 27, 2009 at 9:02 am
I’ve witnessed the lethal rhythm change/eyes roll back scene a few times. Never witnessed the spontaneous revival, however. Thank God for the DNR, ACLS probably would’ve killed him.
August 27, 2009 at 12:03 pm
I have been interested in a while in the book, Denial of Death by Ernest Becker. It’s difficult to summarize his theme in a word or two, but Becker points out that humans are the only creatures with enough intelligence and self-consciousness to be aware of our own mortality.
In his last and final book, Escape from Evil, ironically written as Becker was dying of colon cancer before the age of 50, he argues that death denial leads to much of the evil behavior some humans engage in.
Other death denial behavior is less pernicious. I have often wondered how people, such as emergency room doctors, deal with the emotional challenge of having to confront death and near death so frequently.
As a person who is not a medical person, I will say that I admire and appreciate the work you do as an emergency room doctor, and read your blog posts with interest, enjoyment, and appreciation.
August 27, 2009 at 4:35 pm
Well, I guess when you’re 103, you get there by spitting in the face of death a whole bunch of times…
August 27, 2009 at 6:27 pm
Despite being 103, Dood still has something he has to do…
August 27, 2009 at 6:43 pm
Once Dr. C and I were making rounds, we went into the patient’s room to find him sitting in a geri-chair, at his usual mental status of disorientation and picking at the air. Dr. C wadded up a paper towel and handed to him, he looked at it and placed on the table. Then he had a heckuva seizure. Dr. C said hmmmm, well we can fix that, we’ll start blah blah. And I said those famous words…”is he breathing?” And Dr. C said, give him a second he’ll come around…which in a second he didn’t and I said it again..only this time I said…he’s not breathing!!!!(maybe with a cuss word or two)….and we picked him up threw him in the bed, started CPR, called a code, ACLS’d him…..and he didn’t make it. But he literally died right before our eyes. It was like he was waiting on us…me and Dr. C always had a lot of weird stuff like that happen to us…..
August 27, 2009 at 7:05 pm
lol, what a great story. hope that guy keeps living to 104.
August 28, 2009 at 3:23 am
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August 28, 2009 at 6:31 pm
I actually had a an inpatient die during an EEG. I still have the study. Fascinating to just watch the brainwaves gradually flatten out, then vanish.
The philosophical thoughts I get while reading it are interesting.
August 28, 2009 at 8:26 pm
Well, as a hospice nurse I always say that folks don’t die until they’re quite ready…this guy is living proof!
August 29, 2009 at 9:31 am
That was very moving….
August 29, 2009 at 11:04 am
We had a guy that came in the other night by EMS, conversant in the ambulance and coded while being transferred from stretcher to gurney We worked on him for over an hour, gave tPA for his wicked saddle embolus. First person I actually saw die in front of me…kind of creepy feeling. Dead on with the reset button feeling…
August 31, 2009 at 9:32 am
” Despite being 103, Dood still has something he has to do… ”
That is exactly what I thought… I am incredibly curious what it is that drove this man to come back from the brink of death.
I could only imagine the stories he would have to tell…
August 31, 2009 at 10:36 am
Goes to show that there is hardly a dull moment in the emergency room or in the medicine in general. It gives the doctor or nursing lifestyle that little bit of zazz to keep us going.
Great story, and a little eery.
August 31, 2009 at 10:11 pm
What a great story. I just started nursing school…. look forward to reading more of your stories!
September 1, 2009 at 6:30 pm
While I was doing a hospice home visit I was talking to an elderly woman while sitting on the edge of her bed. She was talking to me and coherent. Then she looked up to the left corner of the ceiling, stared, blinked a few times, stared…I put my finger on her radial pulse and felt it dropping. And then she died. I have always wondered what or who she was looking at up there.
September 4, 2009 at 10:23 am
ok, that was freaky
September 11, 2009 at 5:32 pm
Great post.
Sartre claimed that it was impossible for one to imagine one’s own death.
Hence the importance of all reportage.
September 12, 2009 at 9:37 am
As an ER nurse for the past 12 years, I have seen my share of people die in front of me.
I have experienced more than once patients who come in and say “I feel like I am going to die” and do! I have come to believe in this phenomenon that many times people are aware of their impending death.
A woman in her early fifties came in with chest pain and looked fine on arrival told me that. Within a short time she coded and died.
Another young woman in her 20’s came in with an asthma attack told me the same thing. We stabilized her, sent her to the floor and two days later she died in the hospital.
My own mother – never had respiratory problems, but got pneumonia. I went to see her in the hospital. She told me “I have to get used to the idea that I may not survive this”. I dismissed the thought, told her she would be fine, but a week later she was intubated, developed ARDS and died. I have struggled with this – how did she know? How could I, as a nurse, not seen this coming?
September 15, 2009 at 9:00 am
Nate and I were senior residents hovering over the ICU, the floor, and the ER, supervising our interns and second-years, as if we had medicine all figured out, when we went to the bedside to pronounce another ‘oldguy’, and write up his celestial discharge paperwork. I completed the “he’s really dead” physical exam bit, and was going through his chart while Nate filled out the death certificate. At least five minutes had passed when oldguy sat bolt upright in bed, turned and looked at us, and said, “where the hell have you been?”